Sadness Hello Your A Good Friend.
I cannot even begin to imagine what it is like to have had 7 losses.
When I heard about what happened to MegI could hardly get to sleep that night. I felt so helpless, I wanted to do something to reach out but I just did not know what I could do.
Today was a special day, Matty and I got to visit with Meg and her DH and we had a nice time. To connect, and to be able to reach out in person to her and her DH felt really important. What lovely, kind people. I wish that I could heal their deep pain. I wish there was something that I could say to help. We talked a lot with them...and I hope that sharing our grief experience and photos and our support will help, even a little.
So, these last few days have been so intense. I just feel so sad. It is ok though. I haven't felt too sad as of late, so I embrace this sadness that I feel today.
It's now 8 months and 2 weeks since we held our Birdie. Where has the time gone? What have we been doing? What would she be doing right now if she had stayed.
If only she had stayed.
If only she had stayed.
4 comments:
O honey, I know just how you feel. That thought... "if only"
It stays with me all the time now. What if? If he'd stayed...
reading your blog gets me EVERY TIME.
I've been in a similar place, wondering about the milestones we should be reaching. I hope you and Meg and D and Matt did find some comfort in each other. I hope someday I can see your pictures in person, too.
Oh I'm so glad you got to see Meg and D. They are such lovely kind people, aren't they?
Sharing your grief and your experiences is a very very important thing to do as you heal, and as they heal. I'm so glad you could all share them together.
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